I'm not a psychologist but I think that having a hysterectomy would be a huge mistake! I can't imagine how horrible and painful your miscarriages have been but a hysterectomy is a MAJOR surgery. My mom had a partial hysterectomy at the age of 32 because of fibroid tumors and she was a mess! Aside from being a hormonal nutcase, she went through early menopause after the surgery, and then a few years ago she went through menopause again because she still had one ovary. She was crying all the time, extremely moody, and she would get hot flashes all the time, she said it was awful...and what made it even worse was that she had to go through it twice.
I really hope you will reconsider the surgery, it's a major and permanent surgery. You're still so young and there's a good chance that you could still get pregnant. I don't think the surgery will solve your problems. You've suffered 4 great losses, and I think that you may need to see a counselor to talk through your grief.
Good Luck, I really hope things work out for you, and I'll be sure to say a prayer for you tonight
