I am almost 45. I had an ectopic pregnancy in 1991, which was a horrible and painful (life threatening event) Then my periods were very heavy and painful. In 2001 I decided, without any sort of information (stupid, stupid me) to get a total hysterectomy. Now I have no sex drive, have problems orgasming, and my body has entirely changed. And the hot flashes! They're horrible and I only get them in the daytime. People think I just got out of the shower! If I worry too much about sweating, I sweat more. I am not on estrogen(it made me sick to my stomach) Has anyone else experienced this, and what can I do about my sex life? Thanks

to enjoy sex you need to feel good about your self.try to clear your head of bad thoughts.you are still all woman.go to your doctor he or she will help

Sorry to listen to your case. Please visit a qualified gnaecologist. It would help you in the long run. Do not depend on advice by people/friends. Your case can be definately be cured. Dont worry be happy.